Children

For years, psychologists have been doing research in child development.

Thanks to Melanie Klein, John Bowlby, and many others we understand how important it is for a parent to be attuned to a infant’s temperament, and how critical it is for a child’s development to be attached to a primary caregiver. We know how important it is for a child to be touched and held and responded to.

In more recent years, research into brain development has shown the importance of the interaction that occurs between parents and children. Parts of the brain develop more as a result of the positive interactions between parents and children.

As parents, we want the best for our children, but many times we are overwhelmed by pressures and stress. However, our children need us not only to provide creature comforts but for the comfort and love that only we can offer. Having a parent who will listen patiently, give their child their say in matters, play enthusiastically, and not overindulge them will go a long way to creating well-adjusted adults. Even if you are going through difficult times, taking the time to explain to your child what is happening in an age appropriate and positive manner will teach them to also cope with challenges as they grow.

If your child is having a difficult time academically or socially, it is important to get them some help. Ignoring it will not make it go away. Some parents are afraid to bring their children to a therapist, but getting help early can help avoid more serious problems later.
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